where are we heading to my young friends?

I don't want to sound rude, but to me it feels like young generation lives only for one reason: girls for boys and boys for girls. Ridiculous life and pathetic lifestyle. No manners, uncivilised behaviour. Alcohol and all sort of intoxication ( medically unfit for any job) . Entertainment entertainment and only entertainment. All discoveries were done for comfort and not for ‘ayyeyashi’ and besharmi ( which everyone seems to be proud of). I would like to thank all those people who are working for society, environment and their country, nor for awards neither for fun. They are doing it by understanding and with a real vision. Life is full of art and science but spectators are as useless as sceptical, contributing nothing and wasting a lot. I really hope that people will understand that following a trend on networking site wont change the picture of india, neither will beautiful faces. Only Working brains and hard-working hands will. Smart working isnt as same as being lazy. It is achieving realistic goals by real methods. Running a company won't ensure that we are contributing in economy, but where and how we spend our money will determine the other half of it. Wearing branded makeup and designer clothes wont make women beautiful but their sensitive and motherly hearts and tender yet creative minds. Now we dont expect the man to become a mother do we? Men wont become men by using deodorants, making gfs, driving cars/bikes but by gracefully doing their duties for which nature has given them physical and emotional strength better then most women . Like a cat cannot bark and a dog wont catch mice, no man and woman can play each other's role better thn their own. I feel as if someone has shaken the world and everything is up and down. Women want to get rid of their own bodies and men want to shake off their responsibilities. If u blv in science then please read biological, psychological and emotional structure of a man and a woman and see, what makes them human and what makes them complete in oneself. Mostly, Nobody is doing what they should do, that is what india is like right now and if these kids are our future, I must say one day we will be all sick mentally, physically, emotionally and psychologically and it wont be fun. And this is not my emotional outbrk or mental downfall. If no man is complete without a woman and no woman is complete without a man, (it is not romantic, it is very reasonable) no human is complete without nature. We are only advanced animals. We have homes but we live on ground. If we were meant to fly, we would but thn who knows buffalos n cows would also fly? We have resources we are exploiting them. Freedom is one such resource. Being independent is a challenge. India took 60+ years to understand it and see those little teenagers, they think they know it all. Why? Because we have educated them with minds full of nothing. Now when people cry that why we waste milk on temple and poor people dont get nothing, I request them to go and close all the liqueur shops and see how many lives improve tomorrow, give up your movies and send food and clothes to poor people, stop wasting your money on entertainment entertainment and only entertainment and see how woman and children trafficking goes down. See how many people are saved by little sacrifices but no everyone buys alcohol every weekend and weaken their livers. Is it medically right to booze till you loose yourself. Rave parties? Porn? You know that is destroying us and not the milk and oil wasted in temples. Reservation is required because children of rich arent really great minds, even after getting the best education otherwise they would know 'akela chana bhaad nhi fod sakta'. No dangey would be there if anyone realized that it's out country people, it's our state property which we are damaging. But why should they, who don't even recognise their own family would care about nation? And claiming that they are thinking about welfare of people. It is not about one person, it's about everyone. Will the kids who are under the effect of one or other drugs, become good leaders? It is not possible. They dont even stand a chance to become athlete. Now we see everything with our own eyes but we have no conscience to understand the right or wrong but see how we see the good n the evil, like judges. Celebrating diwali, holi for what? Crackers, new clothers, more booze n parties? Celebrating raksha bandhan for what? New clothes, gifts, booze n party. Why are we even celebrating those days, we are all ravana and holika, we have become the asurs. I despise my country people for being so irresponsible and unjustified, towards their coming generations and complaining about 'kalyug'. The biggest joke. We are all writing our fate by our actions. I dont say their is nothing positive but these negative factors which I mentioned shows our ignorance, our foolishness and short-sightedness. Being a citizen and a woman, I want to get rid of it rather thn losing my tenderness and sensitivity, don't you?

To Change or Not to Change, that is the Question

If someone is uncivilised or morally-not-correct for you, its better that you make your friends or fall in love, after learning their life, lifestyle, past, personal views and over all mentality... It will save your faith and trust in relations and people, because just like you and me, everybody has gone through things which made them say, ''If the world want to see my Bad side , I will show them, how Bad I could become.'' its hard to accept but the truth is, love never hurts, people are not bad, world is not cruel, its only that we chose 'wrong people', we chose them without understanding and when we found out that they are not what we wanted them to be or expected to be, instead of asking them 'whats wrong?' we started telling them, what is wrong about them!! and  then instead of letting them go, we started correcting them without knowing how deep is that wound, how old is that habit, how hard it is for them to become what they are not. We are what our experiences made us, they are what their made them.
We all can correct it today and now, but it still depends on how deep it is, and how much patience we can deliver, how much love we can give to heal them and if we cant do that, its better to Let go, and not make it worse for them. The people who knows that they are hurting you and still cling to you, are the people you should leave.
The second chances are given to children, because they are willing to learn and not the 'smart' adults who use that second chance to ruin/manipulate or change you, to fit with them. Its natural that, if the true healer is there and they know what they are doing with you, you will get cured without even asking for it. But, as for a soldier, if his wife is afraid he will die in war someday and she convince him to quit the army and become a businessman, it sure will benefit them, the city, the state or the country, but if this happened to each of them, just because its better to be rich then living on edge and close to death, there will be no person left to die for us all, to serve us and the country.
The morals and correct behaviour,  are not something you can teach in one day, people are not made for us to mend or change, everybody is born to live, and its better to let them live.
The false love in which, we want to change people because, they don't fit-in with us, is false and its not Love.
 

Damini - the country's daughter

Wow, it's been 9 months since the whole country especially the youth,  were fighting for Damini's right to get justice and finally they got it.

People came up with lots of cheerful responses as they were very happy for Damini.

Damini a girl, none of them knew of, but they called her their sister and daughter.

It's very good and worth appreciation,  that they had such sensitive thinking about her,                                                     but my question is, how many girls, who are alive and living in country, are looked at, as sisters and daughters by the same people?

The girl who is raped brutally, suddenly turn out to be their close relative, but what about the girl who they look at and call her 'hot as fuck?'  and express their sexual interest in immoral ways? 

Why? Why this discrimination?

How People are so hypocrite? 

 most of the protesters were there just for the sake of limelight or to be seen on television. And many others were just the sheep following, because they didn't even know  if  Damini is real or not? 

who they were fighting for ?

And as now, They were able to get justice for her.  Are they still able to get security for their sisters and daughters in future?

Or will they wait for the same brutality to happen to their real sister and daughter so that she can also become nation's sister and daughter?

And what is the meaning of that justice which comes after Death, is it really a justice?                                Are you sure she is happy in heaven if she was such unfortunate soul to get such treatment in her last moments of 'normal' life?                                                                         When will Indians come out of this sheep-ship and stop following whatever?                                                                                                                                               when will they understand that being emotional and showing family love to one dead victim of sick-mentality wouldn't help India at all?                                                           When will they understand that Damini was not their sister or daughter but an example of what could happen to their very sisters and daughters?                                                                  

  I am still wondering why Indians want to help only Dead people and not the ones who are still alive and crying for justice?