If someone is uncivilised or morally-not-correct for you, its better that you make your friends or fall in love, after learning their life, lifestyle, past, personal views and over all mentality... It will save your faith and trust in relations and people, because just like you and me, everybody has gone through things which made them say, ''If the world want to see my Bad side , I will show them, how Bad I could become.'' its hard to accept but the truth is, love never hurts, people are not bad, world is not cruel, its only that we chose 'wrong people', we chose them without understanding and when we found out that they are not what we wanted them to be or expected to be, instead of asking them 'whats wrong?' we started telling them, what is wrong about them!! and then instead of letting them go, we started correcting them without knowing how deep is that wound, how old is that habit, how hard it is for them to become what they are not. We are what our experiences made us, they are what their made them.
We all can correct it today and now, but it still depends on how deep it is, and how much patience we can deliver, how much love we can give to heal them and if we cant do that, its better to Let go, and not make it worse for them. The people who knows that they are hurting you and still cling to you, are the people you should leave.
The second chances are given to children, because they are willing to learn and not the 'smart' adults who use that second chance to ruin/manipulate or change you, to fit with them. Its natural that, if the true healer is there and they know what they are doing with you, you will get cured without even asking for it. But, as for a soldier, if his wife is afraid he will die in war someday and she convince him to quit the army and become a businessman, it sure will benefit them, the city, the state or the country, but if this happened to each of them, just because its better to be rich then living on edge and close to death, there will be no person left to die for us all, to serve us and the country.
The morals and correct behaviour, are not something you can teach in one day, people are not made for us to mend or change, everybody is born to live, and its better to let them live.
The false love in which, we want to change people because, they don't fit-in with us, is false and its not Love.
We all can correct it today and now, but it still depends on how deep it is, and how much patience we can deliver, how much love we can give to heal them and if we cant do that, its better to Let go, and not make it worse for them. The people who knows that they are hurting you and still cling to you, are the people you should leave.
The second chances are given to children, because they are willing to learn and not the 'smart' adults who use that second chance to ruin/manipulate or change you, to fit with them. Its natural that, if the true healer is there and they know what they are doing with you, you will get cured without even asking for it. But, as for a soldier, if his wife is afraid he will die in war someday and she convince him to quit the army and become a businessman, it sure will benefit them, the city, the state or the country, but if this happened to each of them, just because its better to be rich then living on edge and close to death, there will be no person left to die for us all, to serve us and the country.
The morals and correct behaviour, are not something you can teach in one day, people are not made for us to mend or change, everybody is born to live, and its better to let them live.
The false love in which, we want to change people because, they don't fit-in with us, is false and its not Love.
